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I guess I'm saying there is no "right way" - there's your way!
Some time ago this was posted on the comments section of the "Monday Agony Aunt" post. It's taken me a long time to respond because I kept getting stuck on what to say: to give the BEST advice possible. Then I realised that all the while I was thinking about the best thing to say - I wasn't actually saying anything! So rather than be of some help, I was being no help at all!
"Don't let perfect get in the way of good enough". That's a great piece of advice that I would do well to take heed of. So, somewhat belatedly, I offer a response to this question with a sincere apology to the person who posted it and with the fervent hope that something in it might still be of value.
"I have tendered my notice from a good but ultimately mentally un-fulfilling job, I am at a crossroads, with almost too many options and need to be confident that the strategy I undertake is the right one.
I have 7 years design/marketing/Pr experience; self-taught marketer with passion and drive for all things creative. I have benefited from advice and teaching along my career so far and want to help promote and grow other creative businesses setting myself up as a creative and business consultant, whilst growing my own styling business which I have beginning to draw in freelance opportunities for. I have the grounding of good networks in media, design and PR; but feel overwhelmed by the directions I could or should take.
Most people are encouraging when I tell them of my plans, whilst others have reacted with moderate panic; wondering why I'd choose to do this considering the state of global economics. Should I take a significant paycut and intern to gather enough industry experience in marketing, take a sabbatical and volunteer to a cause to figure out what I need out of my job, or move abroad to try to find work opportunities in Scandinavia, where I dream of living and working (as I have Family and Friends there)?"
So one of the dilemas I have in responding to this question is that it seemed so huge. Where to start?
So I can start by saying congratulations on taking on the challenge of working to your heart's content...and tendering your notice at this challenging economic time is a brave step, but clearly one you were in a position to make.
On one level the answer I gave to a previous correspondent under threat of redundancy also applies to you: You need to work out a Plan, a Financial Cushion and some Space. Unllike that previous situation, you have made space by leaving your work - now you need a plan.
Your final three questions - do I take a paycut, have a sabbatical or move to Scandinavia - had me stumped. I couldn't possibly say which was the best option for you and I think that's why it's taken me so long to respond. On mature reflection, I don't think they are the questions that you need to answer FIRST (but I will offer some reflections on them in a moment).
I don't think they are the questions that need to be answered straight away because they are tactical. In other words they answer the "how" to do something. The question to answer first is strategic. In other words, "what" are you going to do. Not - I am going to work in PR - more about what your purpose is in working - what difference are you going to make in the world? In your post you mention wanting to help other businesses while growing your own styling business: what do those two activities have in common?
Once you know your purpose (and I have written about some exercises here and here that might help that process) you have the "what" you are going to do - the strategy. Then you can go about selecting the best tactics for that purpose. That's when your other questions come into play.
Taking a paycut and becoming an intern will be a useful tactic if you decide that your life's purpose is best carried out by growing your expertise in marketing. If your life's purpose is "to teach others and style the nation" (clearly I've made that up), working in marketing is (possibly) a distraction.
Having a sabbatical might be useful if you think it would help you discover your purpose. My experience suggests that your purpose is more likely to be found in your own thoughts and desires as opposed to you tripping over it while working for a "cause" that is not your own. But it takes time, perseverance and possibly some coaching support.
Finally, the question that vexed me most was the one about moving to Scandinavia...and that, I think, is not a "what" question, or a "how" question but a "where". No matter what you decide to do, work in marketing, take a sabbatical, launch a business, study for a qualification, you will have to do it somewhere...I guess the question is which location best supports the fulfilment of your tactics? If you will be happier and have more support in Scandinavia, you could go there: if the opportunities are better for whatever it is that you want to do in the UK - you could stay.
So I guess my "advice" is that when you figure out your purpose the choice around your tactics and where you chose to live has a context. Create your strategy - THEN plan its execution. It could be that any of those options might fulfil your purpose (sooner or later), in which case you can make where you want to live be the deciding factor. My mate Andy Bass has a very useful article about this here.
If it's any consolation - I got to the age of 45 before working out what I wanted my working life to be about. Now I know that I want it to be about spotting and developing creative talent, and empowering people to present their talent in a way that works for them. I articulate this purpose in a variety of ways (including writing this blog) but it acts as a useful filter.
Whatever and wherever your purpose takes you - I wish you all the very best with it. Good luck in your search, I hope it doesn't take you as long as it took me!